The Law of Cause and Effect teaches us the results of our life circumstances and conditions start with our thoughts. Yet, most of us have been taught to look to our circumstances and conditions and call them our causes or, more likely, our "be-causes".
Transformation is when who you are is not determined anymore by other people's opinions or other people's presence.
I am responsible for whatever I want to be, do, and have in this life.
I am responsible for my happiness...for what I am and what I am not...for what I have and what I don’t have.
How does that sit with you?